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The Friendships That Hold Us Safely in Their Keep

In a poignant essay in The New York Times, writer and filmmaker Sara Lukinson '69 reflects upon the importance of her friends when, after the recent loss of her sister, she became a family of one.

The Friendships That Hold Us Safely in Their Keep

“I’ll never stop thinking about my sister; missing her is a part of me now. At the same time, I’ve felt a growing warmth in the company of friends … These ties of friendship that hold us safely in their keep, that shape and share our memories, are among the hardest, most mysterious and most precious of all. Moment by moment, year by year we entrust ourselves to each other. In light of life’s fragility, friendship is our terra firma.”